Back from the house with the afci problem. I checked connections in the panel again, checked for grounded neutral, and went through every box on the circuit. NO MWBC and no doubled up neutrals. I'm not a fan of back stabbed devices, so I remade them all as I went. I had one neutral slip out of the back of a receptacle as I pulled it out of the box (exactly why they're such junk) and got excited that this was the problem, but nope, the problem was still there. I took the heater apart and checked the connections there, even flipped the phases for the hell of it. Nothing helped.
In regards to the 8 amps I keep seeing here, I found the circuit was tripping when I turned the water on and the circuit had 3.2 amps on it.
Filtering was mentioned in an earlier post, but I don't think that we should have to tolerate afci's that need to have accessories added on to them to make them work. If the technology is this problematic, then it shouldn't have been imposed on us as a requirement until ALL of the problems were solved.
OK. I'll get off my pulpit now.
I think my next step is to call the heater manufacturer and GE, the breaker manufacturer and see where that goes.
I also have to admit that I put in a regular breaker to accommodate the home owner for the holidays, but I want to fix the problem, not work around it. Stay tuned.
And if anyone else has some input, I'm still listening. Thanks again